Peaky Blinders · A Viewer's Companion
The show hands you five Shelby siblings in one smoky pub scene, then keeps adding wives, cousins, coppers and fascists without ever pausing for introductions. This chart sorts them: amber borders are Shelby blood, iron-grey borders married in, and the red-ringed faces at the bottom are the people trying to kill them. And to settle the big one straight away — Polly is their aunt, not their mother.
Every betrayal, expansion, and funeral in the series traces back to a handful of facts on this chart.
Polly Gray was born Elizabeth Shelby — she is Arthur Sr.’s sister, not the siblings’ mother (their mother died before the show). She ran the business while the boys were in France, and never quite handed it back. Her son Michael, taken from her as a baby and returned in Season 2, is the siblings’ first cousin — the single most-misread relationship in the show.
Grace walks into The Garrison in episode one as a barmaid — she is actually an undercover agent reporting to Inspector Campbell. She falls for Tommy anyway, marries him in Season 3, and is shot dead at a party within episodes. Tommy spends the rest of the series haunted by her; Lizzie, his secretary and second wife, spends it competing with a ghost.
Tommy is an MP, distillery owner, and still the boss. Arthur is his broken enforcer, wobbling between whisky and God. Ada — the one-time communist — is acting head of Shelby Company Ltd. Michael plots from Boston with Gina’s family. Finn is expelled from the family for a betrayal. Polly, John, and Ruby are in the ground.
Viewers mix them up for whole seasons. Michael Gray is Polly’s polished, office-raised son — ambitious, cold, and eventually Tommy’s would-be usurper. Finn Shelby is the actual youngest brother — around from episode one, forever on the edge of the action, never trusted with real power.
The spouses drive half the plot: Grace the spy, Freddie the communist agitator Tommy once fought beside, Esme the Lee girl whose wedding ended a clan war, Linda the Quaker who nearly pulls Arthur out, and Gina, whose American family turns out to be worse news than any Birmingham enemy.
Small Heath recycles names and fills the screen with flat caps — keep these apart:
The two central Shelby women. Polly = the aunt and matriarch (Helen McCrory). Ada = the only sister of the five siblings (Sophie Rundle). Polly advises Tommy; Ada eventually replaces him at the company.
Michael = the cousin (Polly’s son, arrives Season 2). Finn = the youngest brother (there from the start). One in a tailored suit, one forever proving himself.
Tommy’s two wives. Grace — Irish barmaid-spy, wife #1, dies in Season 3. Lizzie — his Birmingham secretary, wife #2, mother of Ruby, gone by the end of Season 6.
Same name, opposite men. Arthur Jr. = the eldest brother and enforcer. Arthur Sr. = their conman father who turns up in Season 1, steals from them, and leaves again.
Two boys, nearly one name. Charles = Tommy & Grace’s son. Karl = Ada & Freddie’s son — named after Karl Marx, on his father’s insistence.
Two Romani families allied to the Shelbys. The Lees feud with them in Season 1 until Esme’s wedding to John seals the peace. The Golds — Aberama and his son Bonnie — are hired guns from Season 4.
Both glamorous blonde outsiders married to Shelby men. Grace is Irish, Season 1–3, Tommy’s. Gina is American, Season 5–6, Michael’s — and loyal to her own family, not his.

Camden Town’s rum-distilling gang boss — Tommy’s best frenemy. Betrays him, allies with him, gets “killed” by him in Season 4, and is somehow alive in Margate anyway.

The Belfast policeman sent to hunt Tommy in Seasons 1–2 — Grace’s spymaster and obsessive rival. Polly ends him herself.

The fascist MP of Seasons 5–6, drawn from history — the one enemy Tommy plots against and cannot beat.

The racetrack boss of Season 1 — the first empire the Shelbys take, and the template for every takeover after.

Romani hitman hired in Season 4, father of boxer Bonnie † — and, late in life, Polly’s fiancé. Killed mid-mission in Season 5’s failed Mosley hit.
A note on the portraits: these are the characters as they appear on screen — stills from the Peaky Blinders wiki, cropped and served from this site so nothing is hotlinked. Chart covers all six seasons (1919–1934), so spoilers run to the very end: † marks the dead by the series finale — Grace, John, Polly, Ruby, Michael, Freddie, and Arthur Sr. among the family; Campbell, Kimber, and the Golds among the rest.